Life - in my eyes

Life is full of Miracles & Surprises. Often we don't realize the value of what we already have and runs behind what we are yet to receive. We should at the same time treasure everything that we have at present as well as be prepared to accept any kind of sudden violation in the flow of life, whether we like it or not.

When there is a change, there is something new. We must accommodate ourselves with any 'new' that comes in our life. When an orchestra forgets to change their tune with the actual melody accordingly, the beauty of music dies!!!

In the equation of life, often 2+2 != 4 due to presence of our feelings and emotions. Otherwise we would be considered as machines, where there is always a specific output for a specific input.

Often we try to bring a situation/conflict in our favor, and looks for a justification in support of our point of view but at the same time we forget to visualize the situation in which he/she is there, with which we are in argue.

It is beyond our imagination, what a rapid change in one's thought, trust, opinion can happen, when his/her own life comes into action. We must wait a minute and think ten times before we criticize someone.

Often it is said that, "Expectation is the Root cause of all Pain"; what I feel that, in the absence of expectation, the development of our civilization will cease to an end. If a farmer gives up hope, leaves any kind of expectations from his cultivation, where will we go? In spite of the threat of drought,flood and poverty, he 'expects' to have a greater crop each year. His dream is the source of his immortal enthusiasm.

Yes, unfulfilled expectation gives us pain,but we forget the immense energy that was generated to reach that goal. Once we learn to utilize that energy to some task, which is really appreciable, we are actually never failed.Lets do some 'certain' tasks having certain outcomes using the enthusiasm generated due to an 'uncertain' goal.

In the words of a software engineer, "carry on by grouping and packaging each and every module, keeping a dream that they will co-ordinate together to perform a particular service,but in case, if they fail to do so, the modules are never wasted, they can be re-engineered to co-ordinate once again with a brand new arrangement to perform some other service cent percent successfully."

There is a common phrase, "Failure is the steps to Success", Yes, its true, but not for all. Its true for only that person who knows to recycle the energy that he/she is getting from the pain, into a the enthusiasm to start a new beginning. We often forget that, with each failure, we become more experienced. Once we have learnt from it, we are one step ahead towards our goal.

In a broader view, a failure is too small with respect to our entire life and our life is also too short to stick to a failure. Only that very person can feel the real taste of success, who has an experience of being failed.

Its perfectly alright to learn from past experiences, but if one starts always comparing the present with the past, it just blocks the new, better opportunities of his/her life. We should not drive a car using only the back view mirror!!!

We should be able to accept our faults as well as successes too. It helps us to grow up a huge self-confidence as well as self-respect within us. I highly hate to blow my own trumpet, but also dislike to escape from sharing my views with others, when there is a chance to improve/clear my ideas by viewing it through others' eyes.

A person become more matured at the end of each day. We learn till the last day of our life. The most valuable lesson is that which is taught by the teacher of life. We never forget those which we learn from our own experiences.

To me, Life is the greatest teacher who provides its lessons via experiences and Time is the longest course ever which accompany us throughout the entire session of life. We should always carefully listen to our elders, especially grandmother/fathers, because they have already spent a long time in their journey of life and thereby is able to provide us (almost always) right direction.


There are many sharp turning which we all face on the way of our Life. And when parents or relatives do not seem to be a good option to ask for a help/guide, Friends play an important role there. They provide a shoulder to lean on, a company to rely on, a place to share all our problems & opinions. It's other question that, whether his/her suggestion does really work or not. But the very heavenly feelings that, "someone is always there for me, I am never alone", is much more precious!!! 


We are all generally gifted with lots of friends. The special ones remain hidden in the crowd and reveal their genuineness in right moment. A Friend in need is really a Friend in deed. I treasure the relation of Friendship & try to always be there for them.

Enjoy every moment of your life because once a moment is lost, it's lost forever.

All The Best.